What I'm Going To Do to
you:
In this dirty talk scenario, you tell your lover what you're going
to do to their body before you do it, for example, "Now I'm going to
gently suck on your........" This allows them to anticipate what's
coming next. Works especially well when the lights are out and its
pitch black.
What I Am Doing to To You Now:
A variation of the above, but instead of giving your lover warning,
you simply tell them what you are doing while you are doing it.
You'd be surprised how much more erotic licking your partner is when
you're saying what you're doing at the same time.
Tell me how and where you like it:
Simply asking them what they want is a great turn on. "Tell me how
you like it," or "Tell me what you want me to do to you," will give
them a slight sensation of power and you'll find out exactly what
they want.
How You're Making Me Feel:
Telling your lover how you are feeling can add a thrill. Starting
simple statements like, "You make me feel so good," or "You feel so
good to me," . Just state what your feeling and go from there.
Please remember, talking
dirty is supposed to be comfortable and exciting for each
person. And be sensitive to how your partner is responding to you (of course
we should be doing that anyway, not just in bed!).